Monday, October 06, 2008

Who holds your hair?


Sounds like a stupid question doesn't it? Well if you think about it, it is not so stupid. Women will get it more than men, but please allow me to elaborate on the intense true meaning of this question. It is commonly know amongst women that a true BFF (Best Friend Forever) will not think twice about holding your hair in the event of sickness or a drunken stupor. It matter not what the evil cause of the spewage is, but more, the fact that their is spewage at all. A true friend will be there, no questions asked, just be there to do whatever they are able to do to assist you in anything that life tosses your way. Look at who you surround yourself with, who's hair would you hold? Who do you truly think would hold yours? This question posses a few problems for me, as I look around I realize that everyone (other than my wonderful wife) is too busy holding their own hair to even realize that mine needs holding. Life can be unfair and lonely sometimes. I know that there are several people who's hair I would proudly hold. And I will not change that in myself. I will only realize that I am a better friend than they are and continue to be who I am. I will not change and be resentful, because you never know when your going to need or have your hair held. You also may be surprised when you glance back to see who it is holding it. Just a thought.

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